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Life Lesson

 Do you ever figure something out that just makes you feel so dumb for not knowing it prior to finding out? Like when you discovered that the arrow on your gas gauge points to which side the gas pump needs to be on, or that you can put your syrup in the cup before you put in ice so it doesn't splash all over your white sweatshirt you should be wearing at the coffee shop anyways?  Well recently I had a pretty big revelation. I have the ability to speak love, or take it away. I thought I had this one down. I'm good at telling people they are doing a good job, I am good at encouraging, complementing, and being a really dope hype man, except I guess, when it comes to things that are more serious than today's outfit, or the fact that you did something great at work.  See, I have had to take a really deep look into my relationship recently, and the things I am finding, are truly blowing my mind, changing everything, and I feel so dumb for not understanding this before. So you p...

Cloudy Nights

 Boy, 2021 has already brought some massive changes. Truly massive changes. Some of them have been full of joy, and excitement, and others have made me sick to my stomach and ill with worry. Regardless, the earth still turns and the sun still rises.  My husband-to-be called me last night with amazing insight that made my heart stop. The power is out on base I guess (he's in Japan on his first deployment), so he called me to say good night (mind you, its 1 AM for me). He was sitting outside, looking at the stars, and he just goes "wow. The moon is lighting up the sky and I can see like its day" and he went on to talk about how awesome he thinks it is that God gave us the moon and the stars, as almost a metaphor for being light, even in the darkness. Even when we cant see the stars, they are still there, kinda like God is the light in our lives, even when we cant see it. He reminded me that God gives us light in the darkness, even if our own doubt, or worry or fear covers i...

2021

 Oh boy.. Happy New Year! Let all hope we are allowed to have a new year, and not just a repeat of last year. Last year was full of so many endings... Even then, however, beginnings surfaced.  This year, 2021, my life is going to change so much I don't even know where to start. I'm leaving Hurricane Coffee,  moving across the nation, getting my first apartment, surrounded by faces I couldn't even begin to know. I'll be freshly married, thousands of miles away from my family, learning to navigate military life, as well as life in Florida, and I honestly have no idea what I am doing.  The future Mrs. Wisor is not feeling so wise right now.  So many big changes, all happening so fast. It's easy to get overwhelmed. I have been so caught up in solving problems that I am forgetting to enjoy the solutions, or even just the moments between the problems. Constantly stressing about the next step and what I need to be doing in four days and my calendar is filling up with ...

Wisor (Wise-or)

My soon to be, last name. HECK FREAKING YEAH. DANCE BREAK. WHATS UP Welcome to my sister blog. Or maybe wife blog?  Hi, My name is Georgia. I have a bunch of nicknames. G, Lil G, Lil Breadstick, Georgia...  I'm 20 years old and I am getting married (but we don't have a date yet) So welcome to my journey as I become Wisor.  As I plan my wedding, and plan for my life as a milso (military spouse), I find out things that I had no idea about (did you know bridesmaids get flowers too? ) So I figured, why not share what I've learned?  Wedding advice, military wife advice, experences I have with both of those things, and the process of me building my life with Billy (whom I will refer to as William sometimes)  So why not join me? It will be fun, and messy, and full of laughter and probably confusion and frustration, but it will all be real, and maybe even helpful to young brides, and the young brides trying to figure out military life.